You might say, “But recording keeps people accountable.”
Sometimes it does.
Sometimes it reveals real negligence, real harm, real abuse that needs to be stopped.
I’m not arguing against accountability.
I’m asking for something to exist beside it.
Context.
Conversation.
Compassion.
Instead of posting, “Fire her,” imagine walking up after, when the crisis has passed, and saying, “Hey, I noticed your hands were shaking. Are you okay?”
Imagine finding out that the nurse you just judged is working through her own diagnosis, her own loss, her own fear of not being enough in a job that demands everything.
Would you still hit “share” as fast?
I can’t control what people think when they see that video.
Some will always see “old, shaky, unfit.”
Some will see “experienced, exhausted, trying.”
Some won’t think at all, just scroll, react, and move on.
But if that video brought you here, to these words, let me leave you with this:
The next time you are in a hospital, remember that everyone in scrubs is a piece of a fragile system holding itself together with coffee, tape, and willpower.
The nurse who doesn’t smile might be fighting back tears from the last room.
The one who seems distracted might be calculating five medication doses in her head while remembering your name, your allergy, your daughter’s question, and the fact that room 314’s IV pump is beeping again.
The one whose hands shake might be nearing the end of a long career in which she has seen more life and death than most people can imagine.
You can demand safe care. You should.
You can speak up if something feels wrong. You must.
You can expect professionalism.
But if your first instinct is to secretly record a human being instead of asking a question, we have created something crueler than any shortage of staff.
We have created a shortage of grace.
I’m not writing this to make you feel guilty.
I’m writing this because the younger nurses coming behind me deserve better than what I walked out of.
They deserve patients who see them as partners, not enemies.
They deserve leaders who care as much about their mental health as they do about satisfaction scores.
They deserve a culture where “hero” isn’t a word used one month and replaced with criticism the next.
And they deserve a world where, when their hands shake from fatigue, someone offers to hold the tray instead of reaching for their phone.
Tonight, I will take off my badge for the last time.
The hospital will go on without me.
New names will appear on the staffing board.
New hands will hold masks, adjust pillows, and press the blue emergency button when a heart stumbles.
Maybe one of those hands will belong to someone who read this.
Maybe one day, long after I’m gone, a nurse with a tired back and a thinning ponytail will walk into a room where a family is impatient, afraid, on edge.
Maybe one person in that room will take a breath, remember these words, and say:
“Hey, thank you for being here. How long have you been on your feet today?”
That one question could change the tone of an entire shift.
It could lower a voice that was ready to shout.
It could remind a nurse that they are not invisible.
In a world of ratings and reviews and viral clips, here’s my controversial suggestion:
Before you post about a nurse, talk to one.
Before you judge a shaking hand, ask what it has carried.
Before you decide someone should be fired because of a ten-second video, ask yourself how you would want to be remembered after your worst ten seconds on your hardest day.
You don’t have to agree with me.
You don’t have to like nurses.
You don’t have to share this or comment on it.
But the next time you find yourself in a hospital hallway, standing in front of someone in worn-out shoes and wrinkled scrubs, you will have a choice.
You can see a servant.
Or you can see a human being who has spent their life standing between strangers and the dark.
I hope, for their sake—and someday for yours—you choose the second.
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