Let Them Help

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“The boy planted the tomato sideways, and the old man didn’t correct him.”

It would’ve been easier to do it himself. Quicker, too. But Henry Collins, seventy-three, knew better. His knees crackled like popcorn every time he knelt, and his back let him know by sundown whether the day had been gentle or not.

But that wasn’t the point. Not anymore.

“Push the dirt around it, not too tight,” Henry said, squinting under the brim of a sweat-stained John Deere cap. He watched his grandson fumble with the soil, still wearing his sneakers with the city dust on them. The boy’s hands were soft. No calluses. Not yet.

They were out behind the old farmhouse, where the rows of beans once stretched a hundred yards and the sunflowers grew tall enough to block the view of the barn. Back when Henry’s own boys were little and life didn’t feel so damn quiet.

Now, the barn leaned westward like an old soldier, and the fields had more weeds than crops.

Still, this little garden — ten feet by ten — was something. Something honest.

“Why do we plant the tomatoes sideways, Grandpa?” Ethan asked, his breath a little short from the digging.

Henry leaned on his shovel and wiped the back of his neck with a red handkerchief. “Because that’s how they get strong. The stem grows roots, all along the side. Makes ‘em sturdy.”

Ethan looked at the crooked little plant like it held the answers to his future. “That’s weird. I thought roots just went down.”

Henry chuckled. “Most things do better when they spread out a bit. Down’s fine. But sideways? That’s where the real strength comes from.”


Henry hadn’t planned on teaching anyone anything this spring. Truth was, he’d sold most of the land last year. The bank had stopped pretending, and he’d stopped trying to fight it. His wife, Nancy, was gone six years now, and with the boys in different corners of the country, there wasn’t much holding him here.

But then came Ethan.

A letter from his daughter: “Dad, Ethan’s having a hard time. He won’t talk. Won’t go outside. Can he stay with you a while?”

A twelve-year-old boy, glued to a tablet, eyes dull, shoulders hunched. That was who stepped off the Greyhound bus. Henry barely recognized his own blood in that fragile frame.

But here they were. Two weeks in, and the boy finally asked to go outside. So Henry brought out the trowels.


The next few days followed a rhythm Henry hadn’t felt in years. Early up, eggs and bacon, and dirt under the fingernails by nine.

They planted squash, pole beans, and carrots in rows crooked as a dog’s hind leg. Ethan learned how to tell the difference between good soil and clay. He learned how worms weren’t gross — they were gold.

Henry told stories as they worked. About when corn was tall as rooftops and diesel was cheap. About when farmers got respect and not just pity.

“We didn’t have GPS on our tractors,” he grinned. “Hell, sometimes we didn’t have tractors.”

Ethan smiled shyly. He started asking questions. About the weather. About insects. About why Henry kept planting when he knew the farm was gone.

That was the only time Henry paused. He turned the spade in his hand and looked out toward the horizon where the soybean fields used to shimmer.

“Because growing things… it reminds you that not everything’s lost. Not yet.”


One afternoon, Ethan came back from the mailbox with a letter. Not the kind with a stamp — a printed one, sealed by some company. He handed it to Henry with a look that asked too many things at once.

Henry read it in silence. A letter from the agricultural board. A final notice on pesticide regulation. One more nail in the coffin of small-town farming.

He crumpled the letter and shoved it in his back pocket.

“Something bad?” Ethan asked.

Henry looked at the boy — now with dirt smudged on his nose, arms sunburned, a blister on his thumb — and he shook his head.

“Just noise,” he said. “We’re still planting tomorrow.”


That weekend, Ethan caught his first fish at the creek. It was barely six inches long, but the way he held it up, you’d have thought he’d landed a whale. Henry taught him how to clean it, gut it, cook it right over the fire.

They didn’t talk much that night. Just chewed slow, listening to the frogs and watching the stars blink on one by one.

Later, Ethan said, “Mom says people don’t farm anymore because it’s too hard.”

Henry nodded. “She ain’t wrong.”

“So why do it?”

Henry set his fork down. “Because something hard… doesn’t mean it’s not worth doing. Especially if it feeds you. Especially if it teaches you something.”


On Sunday, Ethan planted a row of marigolds without being asked.

Henry watched from the porch, one hand curled around a chipped coffee mug. He didn’t say a word — just watched the boy kneel, pat down the dirt, move to the next one.

It was clumsy. The spacing was off.

But it was perfect.

A hummingbird darted past the porch, chasing something invisible.

Henry closed his eyes and let the breeze pass through his thinning hair.

He remembered his father’s words, passed down like a family heirloom:

“Let them help. Even if it takes a little longer, it’s time well spent.”


The bus came again in July.

Ethan’s mother stepped off this time, all sunglasses and worry lines. She hugged her boy tight and looked around the place like it was a forgotten museum.

But then she saw the garden. Saw the rows. The lean-to trellis with climbing beans. The sunflowers — short but stubborn — swaying beside the barn.

Ethan beamed as he gave her a tour. He showed her the compost pile, the rain barrel, the bug hotel he made from sticks.

Henry stayed back, watching.

When she finally turned to him, her voice cracked. “Dad, I don’t know what you did… but thank you.”

Henry only shrugged. “Just gave him a patch of dirt and a reason to use his hands.”


After they left, the house felt quiet again.

But the garden kept growing.

Each morning, Henry watered it. Not because it needed it — some days it didn’t — but because he liked to.

He liked the sound of the hose. The feel of the air in the morning. The silence that came not from loneliness, but from peace.

He found Ethan’s glove one day, tucked beside the shed. Small. Worn. Dirt-stained.

He held it for a long time.

Then he smiled.


Because even if the crops fail, and even if no one remembers your name…

If a boy learns to plant sideways, you’ve done something that lasts.