“Anything, Dad.”
“When it’s your turn—you know, when you’re my age—don’t let them make you disappear without a fight. And don’t disappear from your kids’ lives, either. Show up. Even when it’s awkward. Even when you don’t understand their music, their tattoos, their choices.”
He laughed through his tears. “That’s a deal.”
But this promise is not just between us.
It’s between me and you, the one reading this on a glowing screen.
Because here is the truth nobody wants to say out loud:
You are going to be us.
Faster than you think.
You will wake up one day and realize the songs you loved are on the “oldies” playlist. Your knees will hurt when it rains. The slang your kids use will sound like another language. The world will speed up just as your body slows down.
And then the question will be:
Will you be treated like a person with a history, or an inconvenience taking up space?
If you want that future to look different, it starts now.
Visit your parents or grandparents if it’s safe to do so.
Ask them what object in their home they would never sell and why.
Take a photo of them holding it. Write down the story.
Because when they are gone, that story will either live in your heart… or it will sit on a folding table in a driveway with a little sticker that says “1$”.
You don’t have to agree with everything I’ve said.
Maybe you think nursing homes are sometimes the best option. Maybe you think some elders really are too stubborn, too harsh. Say so. Talk about it. That conversation matters.
But if you’ve read this far, do one small thing:
Don’t let the people who raised you become invisible while they are still alive.
Not in the grocery store line.
Not in your contact list.
Not in the house where their memories are being tagged with price stickers.
We are still here.
We are still watching.
And all most of us want is this:
Before the world decides to “downsize” us, look us in the eye and say,
“I see you. I remember what you did. You mattered.”
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